Thanks everyone. I met her for dinner tonight. She looked great. Normal daughter, not passing out and nodding off everywhere. I brang up her up coming court date and told her I was not going to go. She wasn't surprised, in fact now that she's had time to thank it over I think she's embarrassed I know about it. I told her we can meet again next week for dinner but the court thing I'm not getting involved in.
She was an adult about it. I left with hope.
Thanks for all the advice you have given me. Without this I may have made project try to save my daughter my problem too.
Hugs to you all!