Welcome, jeroman, and congrats on two days. I agree not to get too caught up in the taxonomy and where to categorize yourself--if it's causing you problems it's causing you problems, and something's off-kilter when we find ourselves working too hard to keep a problem in our lives. (I say "we" meaning "me too, for years"
) This path you're choosing is so much more sane and sensible. Glad you're here!