Babs, Yes, my mother n law is very passive aggressive. I'm used to it, it's been part of my life for almost 20 years.
Lucy, sorry to hear your husband had a slip. It sounds like you are handling it really well. You sound strong!
BeBetter, I can relate...We would visit wineries and I would buy a few bottles at each one and have a baby on my hip while I sipped half the day away. The best was how happy I was at the ones that gave juice boxes or coloring books of grapes. It seemed totally acceptable at the time. I cringe to think about it now.