I was so happy when I was first learning about codependency and putting my tools to work that people did still like me and werent sharing with me because they wanted me to fix things or rescue them. They just wanted me. But, give me real challenges or other times of high stress and boom it all goes out the window and I feel like the Taz spinning out of control. It can be frustrating at times and then I need to make sure I dont start beating myself up for it or start self sabotaging. Which are my normal MO.