[QUOTE=lillamy;4941755]Remember: Just because the alcoholic is crazy doesn't mean you're sane.
I found that out myself after I left AXH. Yes, he was crazy as a loon -- but I wasn't
that far behind in craziness.QUOTE]
Yeah, I'm realizing that too
I definitely don't want him at the house when he starts drinking again. That I know for sure, and that I will not blur my boundaries on. He is on probation and I will call the police if he's drinking again. I
think he knows that and believes that. So I
think that when he decides to drink again, he just won't come home. But do I want to have to keep dealing with the uncertainty of not really knowing, and wondering when he's just going to disappear again? No, I don't