Originally Posted by
Kboys 
I told him I wanted him to stay gone and stay sober for at least three months. But then when he didn’t argue with me about that, and went back to his apartment yesterday morning, I got angry, and I told him that if he was going to move out, then I didn’t even want to talk about reconciliation.
So you told him to stay gone and he left you got angry? That is mixed messages. Also, he HAD NO CHOICE but to be sober while at your place for 4 days... no money or transportation will do that to you. He's not in a program. He's not interested in getting help for his sickness.