Originally Posted by
dionysos803 
I guess the question that comes to mind at this point is how come it is so bad or wrong to bring such people down even more. We know there is now way they will change unless they are ready for change and that doesn't come until they hit rock bottom. So again I ask why not bring them to that bottom quicker than they'll get to it on their own?
Because it's just not your job. And you don't know what's going to bring him to his knees. Your message is a painful one. I am sorry.