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Old 09-27-2014, 08:58 AM
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MissFixit
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I know perpetual tardiness is annoying. Growing up we were late a lot. It is a horrible habit.

As an adult I try to be exactly on time as I HATE arriving early and waiting around. On the flip side I HATE others waiting on me because I think it is rude and I don't like being rude.

Can you reschedule with mom? Are they on the way? Can you reschedule the noon plans? Unfortunately in this situation, as the gift recipient, you cannot call the shots unless you choose to decline the gift, which is a totally acceptable option. As far as future dealings, I might set boundaries and if they are crossed, then you get to determine what you will/can live with. For instance if you meet for dinner and they are 30+ minutes late, I would leave and not reschedule.

Good Luck. I know it is frustrating. You might/will get a new couch, YAY!
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