You're fine. Don't worry about the quacking. He's mad because you're not behaving the way he would like you to? Well, I guess you could say the same thing about him, but we don't see you bellyaching, you're going about your life doing your thing.
I also find it disturbingly controlling that he wants to know what you are doing when he's gone. Does he want play by play updates on your bowel movements as well, and how doing the dishes is progressing?