He just called and told me if I didn't come over to his house he was going to put his boxing gloves on and come "beat your face in." I called my mom and took the kids and we're going up to my parents' for the night. I'm not taking them to school tomorrow at the risk of him showing up there. I'll have to drive two hours to work but at least I'll have peace of mind. One thing is for sure, I'm not living like this anymore and it's time he becomes accountable for his drunken threats. He can't torture me like this anymore. I cleared my extra voice mails so I will have plenty of room to save the threats he leaves me tonight.