You have every right to be angry. I read some where in this forum..."Be patient!! The one thing I know about jerks like your husband, they will screw up!! Be patient. It might not happen as fast as you would like it to, but I can guarantee you, he will screw up!!!!!!!" (just gives you hope) haha
My STBAXH goes out every night, I mean every night of the week, a very busy social calender. Everyone loves him. ..... Here's another comment I heard on this SR, It helps to ask yourself if you trust and respect the person. Would you recommend this guy to your sister? If the answer is no, then it's not love. I realized I didn't even like him! Do you really love him and want him back? Most of us don't, we just don't want them happy if we aren't. We just feel they have moved on and we haven't. Which is right we are all enablers and Co-dependents. Its our issues, stuff we need to work on ourselves. Alcoholism is a "FAMILY" disease and it just stinks!!!
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