Been reading should I stay or should I go and why does he do that. I am very impressed with what he has to say about expectations and being a victim of co-dependency(never did sit well with me).
How ever I am questioning whether or not I may be verbally abusive. I know I have said somethings and regretted it, also I have older sisters who are very mouthy and I have to wonder if
1. being raised with sisters who are verbally nasty, if I am just like them. I am aware that they are not right and I try not to be like them but...
2. Am I questioning this because AH tells me I am not a nice person all the time and is this his way of getting to me or is it true or am I normal?
I have also decided it is time to move on so this morning I called my lawyer and paid them to draw up a separation agreement. Hope I can stick to my guns - I'm tired of being his whipping post. lol
