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Old 09-16-2014, 12:12 PM
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doggonecarl
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Originally Posted by mcfearless View Post
Perhaps someone could share how they maintained this process ?
I haven't drank in over four years. I don't consider that long term sobriety, not compared to the 35 years I did drink.

How did I get past the "novelity" of sobriety? I took the option of drinking completely off the table. I vowed to never drink and never change my mind. Any thoughts of drinking are dismissed as the stirring of my addiction. Any compromises I make with my addiction that will lead to drinking is the insanity of alcoholism. Recognized as such, I can settle into my sobriety without getting complacent.

If I drink, it will be a choice. A poor one, but a decision I will have made. If this happens, I hope I'm not surprised by the results.
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