Hey Fwd, i rsvp'd earlier this year, paid for the room already. Its like the ball is in motion and I dont want to hurt her. She cried because her dad got a room at a nearby hotel instead of the one the package is for. Just not wanting to be another source of disappointment for her. Her soon to be hubby has a sober brother tho! I'm going to hang with him. It is stressful though as far as finances.