Originally Posted by mischa1

Did you stick it out for a while and it never got batter? I don't know why I'm having such a hard time just doing it. I mean I AM doing it but I almost want to give him some time with no contact and see what happens. It is really hard to get and annulment and you don't always win. Him being a drunk isn't enough. So I will end up divorced too and if that's the case why not just wait it out a little while to see what happens. That's probably a stupid thing to think. I'm sure he will never change and it will only be a lifetime of cruelty. UGH.