Originally Posted by
lizatola 
I swear sometimes I feel like he's being as honest as he can be but that he just doesn't hear himself. It's like he's trying very hard to live in reality but that our realities don't match up.
That description fit my ex to a tee. I have just stopped wondering, for the most part. Why does he say these things, doesn't he remember, is it just to try to hurt me--and at this point, I don't think he knows, either!!!
I wish you the very best of luck and hope that you have a great home in your future, the ability to home school, and a peaceful separation process!!