Hi! My son has been in three rehabs (he is now 24) since he was 22. I have never paid for ANY of them. He of course was court ordered for the first two. This last time he actually chose Rehab over living on his own (knowing he would keep using). This time he is paying a reduced fee of $700.00 per month, he has a job and he also is planning on moving out with a room mate after his 4 months are up. I think it takes some kind of ownership from the addict to embrace it all. By the way, I think 19 is very young. There is still a good chance that she will learn what she needs to learn. I also agree with the others who indicate maybe she needs to own some of this burden??