I'm sorry Liz, wish it didn't have to go that way. I wish it didn't seem so predictable for him & his cycles.
I'm glad you are sounding focused on you though, I'm sure it won't be long before he 'outs' himself somehow... he can never quite handle the pressure of hiding it for too very long once he starts back again, right? (if I remember his history?) (((((HUGS)))))