Thread: An ultimatum
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Old 08-29-2014, 01:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Hobbers View Post
I see this, very much, as likely a friend who has been trying to help you for a VERY long time, and you're likely on the 'last straw' with someone who (I bet) really cares about you.

Just ask yourself this- which is worth more to you?

1. A caring, good, honest friend who seems to care a great deal about you.

or...

2. Getting drunk, forgetting large swaths of your life, being drunk or miserably hung-over the rest, and losing more and more stuff.

Thank you jobbers I was thinking maybe you should realise you have a good friend and some people don't

Don't throw that away for drink I'm actually scratching my head here not in a bad way just realise this would not be happening if you didn't want more drink when you was already drunk esp if he's met you for dinner and you feel hes given you an ultimatum ?

Have you considered how you made someone else feel because of your drinking saying he's right just doesn't cut it this is a red flag this is a friend you care about your now loosing that friend

Is it worth it
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