JT,
Just so you'll be safe, I'm whispering this post so your boss won't hear me!
How well I understand how you are feeling....having a kid home, post rehab, waiting for the 'other shoe' to drop and, lo and behold, it did. I'm sorry all this is taking place at your house and know how you are feeling. It could be me next and, in my gut, I feel like it's just a matter of time because my daughter is so immature. I know that sounds very negative but I call it realistic.
And, good glory, do I ever understand about putting on the referee's shirt and grabbing the whistle. The problem being that sometimes someone has to blow the whistle on ME when I LOSE IT! Yikes, how's that for confession?
But I do want to brag on you and your EXCELLENT use of your Al Anon training!
You went to bed and slept?? Man, oh man, you are a great example of what the 12 steps of Al Anon teaches.
Hang in there, gal. You have support and many who understand all you're going through. I hope I get to the level at which you're working your program.