Oh twofish the wedding must have been lovely. So happy for her.....but sorry about the ultrasound. When I was pregnant with my son....I was told he might have Down syndrome. They advised me to take the amnio test.....I did not. I had heard that the test could cause a miscarriage and I had waited 12 years to conceive again. I wasn't going to risk it! I just prayed that he would be born healthy and he was!
I am praying for your daughter twofish. I do not think she could handle something like that....and like you said God does not give us more than we can handle.
She has been thru far too much already!