Thanks all. We have told them we will call the police if harassment continues and it stopped. My mother called three times Thursday night saying she was dying. I went over Friday evening and someone had brought her a bottle of vodka so she was fine again. Was going to walk out when she said something that triggered an outpouring from me, just telling her that she was beautiful, intelligent and YOUNG (68) and I was not going to stand around and watch her flush her life down the toilet. She was receptive until I told her I would never buy her alcohol again (starting on my boundaries). Her face turned blank, she turned away from me and didn't speak to me again, so I left. Haven't heard from her since. Not sure if it feels better but it certainly doesn't feel worse.