Oh God Lillamy.... That is so true of me as well.... uggg.... your last statement. I thought it was because I am a waitress.... thought that is where I picked it up. I didn't realize that was a codie sign. I feel doomed. I am a good listener and most people really really like me when they meet me. Outgoing and I like people to feel at home or comfortable around me. Now I feel doomed. eeeeegads.