Being right is not a great thing.
Doing right is.
Being right is your need for him to admit/agree/ accept what he has done.
Doing right is not giving a sh1t about being right, leaving a bad situation, and living your life to its ultimate happy fulfillment.
You have "done right". Forget about the other. Most often that comes in 9th step recovery if at all. As Myth pointed out above ^^^ for him it came 20 years later.