Originally Posted by
NWGRITS 
Yes, this! He's a lot of things, but a recovering alcoholic isn't it. He hasn't shown any true signs of recovery. Blame-shifting, gaslighting, all of his kind games aren't recovery. He's a dry drunk, not an RAH.
True, but at least with 5-7 meetings a week, there's a chance that something will sink in over time. He was a dry drunk for the first 15 years of our marriage before he even started drinking again so I'm well aware that this recovery is very new and that old habits and thinking patterns are hard to break. I have to laugh because I can just look at myself for that example!