Lizatola,
I knew the minute I saw the title of your thread, where this was going.
As an AA person myself and ACOA, all I can say is,
"That was not an amends".
I think his "sponsor" is Snuffleufucus.
Or, given your husband's past behaviour, he has picked a lovely gentleman that he can "Identify with". I can only imagine the "sponsorship" going on there.
That said, I really don't know that he is ever going to take his seat in class and listen to the message.
I would have stopped him at the first couple of lines and said,
"Stop! I see where this is going and I am not going to let you vomit all over me with your sick, bonkers, deranged, loony soup!"
Basta! as they say in Italy, Enough!
Is it really good recovery for an AlAnon to have given him a polite audience for his verbal vomit?
I am really asking....
