I'm not in AA, but isn't 2 months a little too early to take in the full panoramic view of the wreckage of what ones drinking has done?
From the other side, I see a lot of posts where people get on the Pink Cloud, and go through what they think is a checklist to sobriety, before they've even had a chance to understand how to stay sober.
Re the sarcasm, yes, it's an unhealthy thing. I still deal with a Father who is an adult child of an alcoholic, every second sentence is ended with, "only joking". Well, he can "only joke" by himself now.