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AnvilheadII here's the beauty of amends....when we are the recipient we are under NO obligation to accept them, DO anything about them, or give the "olly olly oxen free" blank check on forgiveness. at any time you could have put a hand up and said - to me your amends sound more like same ole same ole and so i'm cutting this conversation off now because I am feeling uncomfortable.
Thank you for this! It is an empowering reminder about healthy boundaries.