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Old 08-03-2014, 10:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Santa View Post
That's what he calls making amends?? Okaay....
I know, right? And, what I'm surprised about is that he confided in me that this is how he communicates with his sponsor? One minute he'd throw out a blaming statement and then would say, "Well, I know this is about me and I take full responsibility for what happened." Yet, his previous words didn't come out that way. It's one of the reasons that I had to stop listening to what he says and watch what he does anyway. That way I don't get caught taking the bait and I don't get reeled in. I still hear craziness and I am working hard to stay on my side of the street, as best as I can.

Oh, and he made it clear that he is staying in the marriage and has no intentions of leaving and kept baiting me with, "I don't know what you want from a husband', or, "I don't know what your plans are", etc. I felt that he was digging up a response from me and I wasn't willing to respond at that point so I said nothing.
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