Originally Posted by
Amysad 
I just have to do me
Those were the exact words my unemployed 24 year old son who has a drinking problem told me when he was asked to help out around the house and follow the rules under my roof.
My reply, well son go do you someplace else, time for you to take your act on the road.
And I must say I am very proud to hold the title he gave me of being the meanest mother he knows.
Guess I am doing my job correctly!!
Trust your gut and trust what you already know and if she really wants recovery she can find it.
And yes, do you!!!