My AH has been in rehab 2x the last 4 months and I let him come home. I was not as scared the 2nd time because I have worked on my own recovery. Each person has to decide what works for them and the boundaries. I haven't given up on my husband and know while he is sober tonight there are going to be relapses along the way and know what to do (hopefully!) One thing I was not prepared for after the1st time in rehab is how much time is spent @ AA , therapists,talking with sponsors, etc. I know it is something he needs to do and am ok with it. When we do spend time with the kids it is that much better because of the work he is doing. BEST WISHES!