oh sorry, I misunderstood, it sounded like you were back down because he had a hissy fit. I'm sorry you are upset and overworrying.
I'm sure that your "disposable income" for little things for yourself is tight, because you have been supporting another person on your salary. another reason why he needs to get his own cellphone, foodstamps and contribute to the household. even $200. a month pays the utilities and that is $2400. a year less you have to put out.