chic, the big plan has NOT changed....he needs to go and he needs to do things to facilitate what insurance requires. end of story...this is not something you have devised to *irritate* him
NONE OF THIS STUFF is enjoyable for ANY ADULT, but we DEAL WITH IT...without bargaining or huffy-puffy pouty McWowty pants. (thanks Lenina for that).
good grief, he needs to suck it up and do it...no big deal, it is not like he has real life problems and real bills, real life to deal with like the rest of the adults.....no one likes insurance requirements, but we just do it...
so you stop feeling bad...because YOU did NOT cause this...
I shall send the slapomatic for sonny-boy and a quart of gelato for you with fresh cookies...(you want macaroons?)