Having crappy relationship issues too!!! Was doing really well physically sober but the emotional sobriety takes a lot lot longer...anyway he started having a go last week saying I am an emotional zombie and need to do more around the house and blah blah blah ... I actually dont know if I love him any more he irritates me soooo much long story short I slipped and now he is saying he isn't sure he wants me to come on hols with him and the kids ....today I really hate him..... this illness has turned him in to a neurotic control freak or was he always like that?