thank you .. I think I am getting wiser, maybe not stronger... but he did call and left a message for the doctor, requesting an appt. so far she hasn't gotten back with him. I checked on tmobile, they have all call records. just to be sure he wasn't fibbing and playing for time. I feel like such a snoop. the doctor reassured me that I wasn't manipulating him, that its my house, and I have a right to expect certain normal progressions from him.
He is still mad, but seems to be calming down a bit.
Hawkeye, I think you are right, that the Chicory is your Flax. sounds just like it. Your place sounds marvelous!!! I would be in heaven there.
someone sent me a poem about chicory. think it was Wicked, who I miss
will find it and post it.
hugs to all. thank you for helping me. so so very much.