Yes, Dandylion, it feels so odd, so uncomfortable, to feel hopeful. He has resisted everything anyone has ever said. I have noticed him being more 'receptive' when the conversation has been thoughtful, caring, and calm, with no accusations...letting him come to his own conclusion , he seems to be more honest then.
I will contact my therapist on Monday and let her know. I will make sure son will go and then ask him to make an appt. If he does not, well , that puts me back to square one. I pray that he is sincere. I think when he sees hope of a good job he gets really happy, and it seems that now is the best time to use my internet card!
hugs and thanks for the prayers,
chicory