The neck pain is physical. He's had one surgery and needs more. He began drinking more than the one glass of wine that the neurologist recommended when the pain meds quit working. He sees a pain management doctor. I've tried to get him to apply for disability but he says he can't afford it. I think I'm going to print off some information about alcoholism, quitting, etc. and leave at the house. At least he's not constantly telling me how this is all my fault anymore.