Hi chic;
I know you are an early morning person / poster too so thought I would wish you a postive
day.
Your son may or may not "choose" to understand what you are saying no matter how you word it, so don't feel bad just keep the pressure up.
Did he pass the drug test and get the job?
Has he applied for any other ones, and what is your back-up plan should none of them pan out?
These might be some topics you "run through" with the therapist today also to try to get
some direction with her help.
Hang in there dear friend