Cabo, I hear what you are saying and I agree, but like Non, I think this forum is about completely quitting.
I think that for many people, there is a great deal of fear. I understand that and I respect that. Just because I am not afraid of topics like moderation doesn't mean that others aren't.
My grandmother was the epitome of Deep South Christianity. If I spoke of my non belief, it visibly upset her. Her fear for my soul was very real. I respected that. Obviously being atheist, I am not worried about my fate after I die. Just me knowing that is enough, I don't have to get her blood pressure up about it, there's no point.
As far as changing the face of recovery I do think that respectful conversations are necessary, but toward that end it's important to invoke as little fear as possible so that the words can be heard.