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caboblanco where could someone safely talk about their success in moderation without getting a birage of negative feedback..ill-will..or told they aren't a real alcoholic? there is really nowhere in this recovery culture....pretty good reason why you don't hear about many people successfully moderating
No matter what you say about anything someone is going to disagree anyway. SR is for abstainers. If I was content to just cut back I wouldn't have joined this site. It doesn't bother me in the least when people talk about moderation. If that was my goal I would have tried it. I do like the idea that the one with the problem gets to decide how to deal with it. I know a few self described alcoholics that have no intention of quitting ever. One guy at work brags about how he is an alcoholic but never call in sick.