When I start contemplating whether I could just have a glass here or there of wine, I realize how addicted I truly am to wine/alcohol. I quit other things that I loved that were bad for me, because I wanted to be healthier ~ Diet Cokes, usually six a day, red meat, etc. Never once do I spend a blink of time wondering if I could fit them back into my life. I certainly didn't join an on-line forum to help me quit these items and stay quit from these items. Alcohol isn't good for anybody, alcoholic or not, so why would I want to put it back into my life? And btw, I have moderated my alcohol intake, pretty successfully, for an entire summer and it was miserable. I couldn't wait to get to the drinks I "allowed" myself to have and they never fulfilled me. I was always wanting more.