OGK- welcome! Wonderful to 'see' you. Please make yourself at home. Spare pillows are in the closet along with blankets and a pallet of tissues.
Kialua- To not attend these things would mean destroying relationships with my sister and her family after I have worked so hard on them these past few years.
DD- I always get hit with something as well. July 3 my 4 year old nephew broke his collar bone and that caused a big drama fest with my mom