1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Yes
4. From my AW and her enablers from the past...I am "Lame", "No fun", "Square". I even have a nickname "wine thief". Because one time when I know my wife was crossing the presipice of getting flat out drunk and ruining my night, I hid the wine on them. Stupid I know. She has one close frined from home who is a true enabler and when they get together watch out...I will be target number one.