I'm in your boat too! Many people said that they didn't think I had a problem. This helped with my alcohol voice to gain strength! But I go back to the three questions that help me the most!
1 how is alcohol helping me be a better human being
2 a better wife
3 a better mother
It helps me to stay on track. I like you, have not had legal inv. a divorce, lost job .....YET!
We know it's coming just hasn't happened yet so that is a great reminder! I'm 38 days and feeling great, after 30 days feeling a lot better, you can do it!!!