Originally Posted by
trachemys And you're right.
I frequent another forum for an activity that involves a lot of gear and gear choices. After a time, the "oldtimers" will occasionally express frustration with all the "newbies" asking the same questions over and over(and over and over and...) There's are the usual "my gear's better than your gear" threads and the occasional "you're doing it ALL WRONG" thread.
Just as in that activity, we should welcome and help every new member we get. In that other forum, new members mean a flourishing activity. And it means the same thing here.
Flourishing sobriety.
I agree with the above. From fishing rods to kayaks to what color jeep you own...
Boudi, it can be frustrating. But as you said - and I believe - being done forever is a totally liberating.