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Old 07-03-2014, 11:15 AM
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hopeful4
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Do you realize all you have accomplished this week my friend? THAT IS HUGE! I am so so proud of you. While it was not smooth as silk, I don't really think you thought it would be. You are moving forward. It is just like them to pick out one thing that really does not matter much (the letter) and focus on that to derail you from what he really needs to focus on. You can do this. As for the therapy stuff, it's not a marriage. If that one is no good, try another. Point is, he has agreed. They will surely see through his BS. I myself would write them a letter about what is going on so they are informed. I would tell them you don't require any info back, that you are simply enclosing this because he has a history of denial. Controlling, maybe. Necessary, possibly, so they get the true scheme of things.

I hope you have a happy and peaceful 4th. Be proud of these accomplishments this week! Cry if you need to, but be proud of YOU!

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