Chicory, just wanted to say sorry you got such a bad response from him.
You don't deserve that. You deserve peace. Please don't buy into his hissyfit...hard not to, I'm sure. I assume you've stated your case to him?
Well, I guess if he doesn't want his mail read, he could always move out? Not that I agree with reading mail necessarily, but geez...
Hugs for today.xx