Thread: Resentments
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Old 07-01-2014, 12:51 PM
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Stung
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I agree with Florence too. I don't think that is a resentment and I think it's actually healthy to be pissed that he's being a tool about the points.

Also, whatever his genuine, legitimate resentments are he doesn't need to be sharing those with you or vice versa. Those are personal. I have resentments against my husband and I have no doubts that he resents me for things too but sharing them with each other is like we might as well just ask the other one if we want to fight. We're not healthy enough to discuss our resentments and at this point, I'd imagine that your husband isn't healthy enough to do that either.

From the outside looking in, I don't think this is resentment stuff but just your husband instigating a fight with you.
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