Hey Chicory
Just now catching up on this thread. I have no suggestions, so many wonderful ideas have already been shared. I do have a great deal of respect for you and what you are doing. I think it takes a great deal of courage to admit your son has a problem, and even more courage to ask for help, whether on SR or from a counselor.
I think that is what recovery is all about. To be willing to ask for help, and have the courage to take action. I know there have been times in my life when I shrunk into denial and did _not_ take action, so I know how difficult it can be.
I think you rock
And I will check back here to see what you think of that counselor.
Mike