Originally Posted by
MissFixit 
Can you stay here if you are not married to him? Do you need to return to your home country? Are there legal issues? Can he make legal trouble for you?
Im actually at the point of confirming our marriage to remove the conditions on my green card.
I've told him he needs to explain to the lawyer out situation and to find out what the likelihood of that happening is.
Because he hasn't moved down to be with me, which he should have been by now, I'm worried it's going to look bad to immigration.
Otherwise, I want to keep my job. I have my own place and a life without him here, because I had to. So that I'm ok with, and I'm confident if things went bad if be ok to stay and do just fine.
I'm wanting to give him the chance to change - since he only admitted this on Monday and started at counseling and AA this week.
But I guess I'm prepared for the worst because I'm not sure I'll ever really trust him again.
How does anyone trust again after all the lies?